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  • CalExotics Aura Standard teal vibrator with smooth tapered shape
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    Aura Standard Rechargeable Vibrator

    Aura Standard Rechargeable Vibrator

    CalExotics

    $29.33 CAD
    Was  $41.90 CAD
  • Tracy's Dog OG Clitoral Sucking Vibrator - Thorn & Feather
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    Tracy's Dog OG Clitoral Sucking Vibrator

    Tracy's Dog OG Clitoral Sucking Vibrator

    Tracy's Dog

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    $57.96 CAD
    Was  $82.80 CAD
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    Mixgliss Clean Sex Toy Cleaner

    Mixgliss Clean Sex Toy Cleaner

    Mixgliss Clean Sex Toy Cleaner

    Mixgliss

    $16.73 CAD
    Was  $23.90 CAD
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    Orgasm Rainfall G-Spot Stimulating Gel
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    Orgasm Rainfall G-Spot Stimulating Gel

    Orgasm Rainfall G-Spot Stimulating Gel

    Love to Love Cosmeto

    $28.70 CAD
    Was  $41.00 CAD
  • Tracy's Dog Masturbator Cup Mouth - Single Pass

    Tracy's Dog Masturbator Cup Mouth - Single Pass

    Tracy's Dog Masturbator Cup Mouth - Single Pass

    Tracy's Dog

    $33.53 CAD
    Was  $47.90 CAD
  • GoodHead To Go Deep Throat Spray - 2 fl.oz./59ml - Thorn & Feather

    GoodHead To Go Deep Throat Spray - 2 fl. oz.

    GoodHead To Go Deep Throat Spray - 2 fl. oz.

    Doc Johnson

    $16.73 CAD
    Was  $23.90 CAD
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    Tenga Egg New Standard Masturbator
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    Tenga Egg New Standard Masturbator

    Tenga Egg New Standard Masturbator

    Tenga

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    $8.96 CAD
    Was  $16.90 CAD
  • Signature Strokers Lulu Chu ULTRASKYN Pocket Pussy Stroker - Thorn & Feather

    Signature Strokers Lulu Chu ULTRASKYN Pocket Pussy Stroker

    Signature Strokers Lulu Chu ULTRASKYN Pocket Pussy Stroker

    Doc Johnson

    $23.73 CAD
    Was  $33.90 CAD
  • Intimate Earth Hydra Water Based Glide - Thorn & Feather

    Intimate Earth Hydra Water Based Glide

    Intimate Earth Hydra Water Based Glide

    Intimate Earth

    $12.53 CAD
    Was  $17.90 CAD
  • Tracy's Dog OG Dual Vibe Couple Vibrator - Clearance

    Tracy's Dog OG Dual Vibe Couple Vibrator - Clearance

    Tracy's Dog OG Dual Vibe Couple Vibrator - Clearance

    Tracy's Dog

    $27.93 CAD
    Was  $39.90 CAD
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    Tenga Spinner - 06 BRICK - Thorn & Feather
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    Tenga Spinner - 06 BRICK

    Tenga Spinner - 06 BRICK

    Tenga

    $29.89 CAD
    Was  $68.90 CAD
  • Fantasy For Her Vibrating Nipple Suck-Hers - Thorn & Feather
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    Fantasy For Her Vibrating Nipple Suck-Hers

    Fantasy For Her Vibrating Nipple Suck-Hers

    Pipedream

    $32.13 CAD
    Was  $45.90 CAD
  • Rechargeable X-5 Power Beads

    Rechargeable X-5 Power Beads

    Rechargeable X-5 Power Beads

    CalExotics

    $32.83 CAD
    Was  $46.90 CAD
  • Green Tea Tree Oil Foaming Toy Cleaner - Thorn & Feather

    Green Tea Tree Oil Foaming Toy Cleaner

    Green Tea Tree Oil Foaming Toy Cleaner

    Intimate Earth

    $18.13 CAD
    Was  $25.90 CAD
  • Lux Fetish - Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps

    Lux Fetish - Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps

    Lux Fetish - Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps

    Lux Fetish

    $22.50 CAD
    Was  $35.50 CAD
  • Signature Strokers Eva Elfie ULTRASKYN Pocket Pussy Stroker

    Signature Strokers Eva Elfie ULTRASKYN Pocket Pussy Stroker

    Signature Strokers Eva Elfie ULTRASKYN Pocket Pussy Stroker

    Doc Johnson

    $23.73 CAD
    Was  $48.90 CAD
  • ROMP Dizi G-Spot & P-Spot Dildo
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    ROMP Dizi G-Spot & P-Spot Dildo

    ROMP Dizi G-Spot & P-Spot Dildo

    Romp

    $27.93 CAD
    Was  $54.90 CAD
  • Romp Beat Bullet Vibrator - Purple - Thorn & Feather

    Romp Beat Bullet Vibrator - Purple

    Romp Beat Bullet Vibrator - Purple

    Romp

    $27.93 CAD
    Was  $50.90 CAD
  • Spread Labia Spreader Straps with Clamps

    Spread Labia Spreader Straps with Clamps

    Spread Labia Spreader Straps with Clamps

    XR Brands

    $27.30 CAD
    Was  $39.00 CAD
  • Mood Naughty 1 Trainer Set - Black - Thorn & Feather

    Mood Naughty 1 Trainer Set

    Mood Naughty 1 Trainer Set

    Doc Johnson

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    $31.43 CAD
    Was  $44.90 CAD
  • Colours Pleasures 5" Silicone Dildo - Blue - Thorn & Feather

    Colours Pleasures 5" Silicone Dildo

    Colours Pleasures 5" Silicone Dildo

    NS Novelties

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    $31.43 CAD
    Was  $66.90 CAD
  • Intimate Earth Pussy Willow Silk Hybrid Glide - Thorn & Feather

    Intimate Earth Pussy Willow Silk Hybrid Glide

    Intimate Earth Pussy Willow Silk Hybrid Glide

    Intimate Earth

    $12.53 CAD
    Was  $17.90 CAD
  • Pump Action Enema Bottle with Nozzle - 300ml - Thorn & Feather

    Pump Action Enema Bottle with Nozzle - 300ml

    Pump Action Enema Bottle with Nozzle - 300ml

    XR Brands

    $25.13 CAD
    Was  $56.90 CAD
  • Intimate Earth Plush Super Thick Hybrid Anal Glide - Thorn & Feather

    Intimate Earth Plush Super Thick Hybrid Anal Glide

    Intimate Earth Plush Super Thick Hybrid Anal Glide

    Intimate Earth

    $12.53 CAD
    Was  $17.90 CAD
  • Intimate Earth Soothe Anal Antibacterial Glide - Thorn & Feather

    Intimate Earth Soothe Anal Antibacterial Glide

    Intimate Earth Soothe Anal Antibacterial Glide

    Intimate Earth

    $11.83 CAD
    Was  $16.90 CAD
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    Tenga Premium Vacuum Cup - Gentle - Thorn & Feather

    Tenga Premium Vacuum Cup - Gentle

    Tenga Premium Vacuum Cup - Gentle

    Tenga

    $16.73 CAD
    Was  $56.90 CAD
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    Tenga Egg Standard Masturbator

    Tenga Egg Standard Masturbator

    Tenga Egg Standard Masturbator

    Tenga

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    $8.96 CAD
    Was  $12.80 CAD
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    Tenga Egg Hard Boiled II Masturbator

    Tenga Egg Hard Boiled II Masturbator

    Tenga Egg Hard Boiled II Masturbator

    Tenga

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    $8.96 CAD
    Was  $16.90 CAD
  • The Super Ball Sucker ULTRASKYN Stroker

    The Super Ball Sucker ULTRASKYN Stroker

    The Super Ball Sucker ULTRASKYN Stroker

    Doc Johnson

    $27.93 CAD
    Was  $39.90 CAD
  • ROMP Piccolo P-Spot & G-Spot Dildo

    ROMP Piccolo P-Spot & G-Spot Dildo

    ROMP Piccolo P-Spot & G-Spot Dildo

    Romp

    $27.93 CAD
    Was  $39.90 CAD
  • ROMP Switch X Clitoral Suction Stimulator

    ROMP Switch X Clitoral Suction Stimulator

    ROMP Switch X Clitoral Suction Stimulator

    Romp

    $27.93 CAD
    Was  $63.90 CAD
  • ROMP Bass Vibrating Anal Plug - Thorn & Feather

    ROMP Bass Vibrating Anal Plug

    ROMP Bass Vibrating Anal Plug

    Romp

    $27.93 CAD
    Was  $58.90 CAD
  • Gluck Gluck The Male Rose Elite

    Gluck Gluck The Male Rose Elite

    Gluck Gluck The Male Rose Elite

    Secwell

    $27.30 CAD
    Was  $39.00 CAD
  • Ivory Bloom Lace Short Robe

    Ivory Bloom Lace Short Robe

    Ivory Bloom Lace Short Robe

    Thorn & Feather

    $20.23 CAD
    Was  $35.90 CAD
  • Basic Silicone Anal Plug Set

    Basic Silicone Anal Plug Set

    Basic Silicone Anal Plug Set

    Thorn & Feather

    $20.93 CAD
    Was  $29.90 CAD
  • Sex & Mischief Shadow Fur Handcuffs - Black - Thorn & Feather

    Sex & Mischief Shadow Fur Handcuffs - Black

    Sex & Mischief Shadow Fur Handcuffs - Black

    Sportsheets

    $33.80 CAD
    Was  $56.90 CAD
  • Tracy's Dog Goldfinger G Spot Vibrator - Clearance

    Tracy's Dog Goldfinger G Spot Vibrator - Clearance

    Tracy's Dog Goldfinger G Spot Vibrator - Clearance

    Tracy's Dog

    $19.89 CAD
    Was  $80.00 CAD
  • Fifty Shades of Grey Captivate Lacey Mini Dress

    Fifty Shades of Grey Captivate Lacey Mini Dress

    Fifty Shades of Grey Captivate Lacey Mini Dress

    Fifty Shades of Grey

    $32.13 CAD
    Was  $45.90 CAD
  • Dr. Joel Kaplan Rechargeable Prostate Locator

    Dr. Joel Kaplan Rechargeable Prostate Locator

    Dr. Joel Kaplan Rechargeable Prostate Locator

    CalExotics

    $32.13 CAD
    Was  $45.90 CAD
  • First Time Crystal Booty Kit - Purple - Thorn & Feather

    First Time Crystal Booty Kit

    First Time Crystal Booty Kit

    CalExotics

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    $23.03 CAD
    Was  $32.90 CAD
  • Swiss Navy Toy & Body Cleaner - 6 oz - Thorn & Feather

    Swiss Navy Premium Toy & Body Cleaner

    Swiss Navy Premium Toy & Body Cleaner

    Swiss Navy

    $6.93 CAD
    Was  $9.90 CAD
  • Rear Assets Tapered Trainer Kit
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    Rear Assets Tapered Trainer Kit

    Rear Assets Tapered Trainer Kit

    NS Novelties

    $30.73 CAD
    Was  $43.90 CAD
  • Temptasia Nipple Pumping Cylinders Set of 2

    Temptasia Nipple Pumping Cylinders Set of 2

    Temptasia Nipple Pumping Cylinders Set of 2

    Blush

    $30.73 CAD
    Was  $47.90 CAD
  • Xact-Fit Silicone Rings - #14, #15, #16

    Xact-Fit Silicone Rings - #14, #15, #16

    Xact-Fit Silicone Rings - #14, #15, #16

    Perfect Fit

    $23.03 CAD
    Was  $32.90 CAD
  • Pjur Toy Foam Intense Cleaning

    Pjur Toy Foam Intense Cleaning

    Pjur Toy Foam Intense Cleaning

    Pjur

    $30.03 CAD
    Was  $42.90 CAD
  • Boundless Bar Gag - Thorn & Feather

    Boundless Bar Gag

    Boundless Bar Gag

    CalExotics

    $29.33 CAD
    Was  $76.90 CAD
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    Touch My Body - Massage & Intimate Glide
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    Touch My Body - Massage & Intimate Glide

    Touch My Body - Massage & Intimate Glide

    Love to Love Cosmeto

    $17.50 CAD
    Was  $25.00 CAD
  • Flutter Rabbit Vibe Mini - Clearance

    Flutter Rabbit Vibe Mini - Clearance

    Flutter Rabbit Vibe Mini - Clearance

    Tracy's Dog

    $21.00 CAD
    Was  $69.90 CAD
  • Strict Claw Hook Mouth Spreader

    Strict Claw Hook Mouth Spreader

    Strict Claw Hook Mouth Spreader

    XR Brands

    $20.93 CAD
    Was  $29.90 CAD
  • The Martian 7.75" Monster Dong

    The Martian 7.75" Monster Dong

    The Martian 7.75" Monster Dong

    CalExotics

    $27.93 CAD
    Was  $39.90 CAD
  • Liberator Zappa Toy Bag - Thorn & Feather

    Liberator Zappa Toy Bag

    Liberator Zappa Toy Bag

    Liberator

    $27.93 CAD
    Was  $76.90 CAD
  • Fetish Tentation Door Hanger Handcuffs

    Fetish Tentation Door Hanger Handcuffs

    Fetish Tentation Door Hanger Handcuffs

    Fetish Tentation

    $27.93 CAD
    Was  $39.90 CAD
  • Intimate Earth Intense Clitoral Stimulating Serum - Thorn & Feather

    Intimate Earth Intense Clitoral Stimulating Serum

    Intimate Earth Intense Clitoral Stimulating Serum

    Intimate Earth

    $20.93 CAD
    Was  $29.90 CAD
  • Sportsheets eaches 'n CreaMe Silicone Lips

    Sportsheets eaches 'n CreaMe Silicone Lips

    Sportsheets eaches 'n CreaMe Silicone Lips

    Sportsheets

    $27.64 CAD
    Was  $39.49 CAD
  • Brat Collar & Leash - Thorn & Feather

    Sex & Mischief Brat Collar & Leash

    Sex & Mischief Brat Collar & Leash

    Sex & Mischief

    $27.23 CAD
    Was  $38.90 CAD
  • Intimate Earth Bliss Anal Relaxing Water Based Glide - Thorn & Feather

    Intimate Earth Bliss Anal Relaxing Water Based Glide

    Intimate Earth Bliss Anal Relaxing Water Based Glide

    Intimate Earth

    $18.83 CAD
    Was  $26.90 CAD
  • CalExotics Scandal Silicone Stopper Gag - Black - Thorn & Feather

    CalExotics Scandal Silicone Stopper Gag - Black

    CalExotics Scandal Silicone Stopper Gag - Black

    CalExotics

    $25.83 CAD
    Was  $57.90 CAD
  • Addiction Crystal Addiction Vertical Dong

    Addiction Crystal Addiction Vertical Dong

    Addiction Crystal Addiction Vertical Dong

    Addiction

    $20.93 CAD
    Was  $58.90 CAD
  • Cougar Day Collar

    Cougar Day Collar

    Cougar Day Collar

    Sportsheets

    $25.33 CAD
    Was  $36.19 CAD
  • Dr. Laura Berman Universal Toy Cleaner - 6.28 fl. oz

    Dr. Laura Berman Universal Toy Cleaner - 6.28 fl. oz

    Dr. Laura Berman Universal Toy Cleaner - 6.28 fl. oz

    CalExotics

    $8.33 CAD
    Was  $11.90 CAD

Starting Simple Makes the First Experience Better

For first-time users, the best approach is to keep things simple. Beginner-friendly toys and the right lubricant can make the experience feel more comfortable, natural, and far less intimidating.

Simple toys are designed with gentle stimulation and easy control in mind. Small vibrators, soft personal massagers, and beginner anal toys with smooth shapes are all great options for exploring at your own pace. They’re easy to understand, easy to handle, and easy to stop or adjust whenever you want.

Lubricant plays an important role, especially during first-time use. It reduces friction, improves comfort, and helps everything feel more relaxed from the start. A gentle, water-based lubricant is often the best choice for beginners — it works with all toys, feels lightweight, and cleans up easily.

Combining a simple toy with a good lubricant allows you to focus on sensation rather than hesitation. No pressure. No rush. Just a smooth and comfortable introduction to what you enjoy.

Sex Toys for Beginners – Frequently Asked Questions

What kind of sex toy should a beginner start with?

Simple ones. Small size. Easy controls.
Bullet vibrators, soft massagers, beginner anal toys — those are common first picks.
What if it feels too strong?

That happens.
Start on the lowest setting. You don’t need to jump into high intensity. You can always turn it up later.
Do I really need lube?

Honestly… yes.
Even if you think you don’t. Lube makes everything feel better and less stressful.
Which lube is best for beginners?

Water-based lube.
It’s light, safe with all toys, and easy to clean. Hard to mess up with this one.
Can I hurt myself using a sex toy?

If you go slow and listen to your body, very unlikely.
If something feels wrong, just stop. No need to push through it.
How long should I use a toy?

There’s no rule.
A few minutes. Longer. Shorter. Whatever feels right that day.
What if I don’t like it the first time?

That’s okay. Really.
Not liking one toy doesn’t mean toys aren’t for you. It just means that toy wasn’t it.
Is using toys with a partner awkward?

Sometimes, yeah.
Starting with something simple helps a lot. No complicated setups. Keep it chill.
How do I clean it after?

Warm water and mild soap works for most toys.
Dry it fully before putting it away. Easy.
What if I feel uncomfortable and want to stop?

Then stop. That’s it.
You’re always in control. Always.
Any last tips for beginners?


Keep it simple. Use lube. No pressure.

There’s no “right way” to enjoy this. Just your way.

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